DIY; Do or do not?
There’s something undeniably charming about a handmade touch at a wedding. Whether it’s handwritten signage, custom welcome bags, or a unique photo display, DIY décor can add personality and warmth that reflects you as a couple. But let’s be honest—it can also bring stress, time pressure, and unrealistic expectations, especially when you're trying to make it all look Pinterest-perfect.
At House of Luxe, we’ve seen it all—from beautifully done DIY touches that elevate the day to frantic, last-minute crafting sessions that leave couples burnt out before they even say “I do.” So let’s talk about the right (and wrong) way to approach DIY for your wedding day.
The Right Way to Do DIY
DIY can be amazing when it’s intentional. The best pieces are the ones that feel meaningful, manageable, and don’t add unnecessary stress to your plate.
Here are some great places to start:
Personalized favors that can be made well in advance
Custom signage if you enjoy hand lettering or digital design
Photo boards or memory tables that honor your story and your families
Simple centerpieces using materials you’re comfortable working with
The key? Choose no more than 1–2 projects that you enjoy doing, and that won’t require your entire wedding week to execute.
The DIY Trap: What to Avoid
On the flip side, there are some common pitfalls we see couples fall into when it comes to DIY:
Taking on too much—Trying to build an entire lounge set, handcraft every place card, and bake your own desserts might seem doable months in advance, but the reality? Time gets tight, and stress gets real.
Expecting perfection—There’s nothing worse than staying up until 2 AM before your wedding trying to fix uneven edges or redo a project that didn’t turn out “just right.” You’re not a factory—and you shouldn’t have to be.
Forgetting the setup—Even if you get your projects done, someone has to set them up on the big day. Are you handing off instructions? Will your planner know what goes where? Logistics matter.
The Cost of Convenience (And Why It’s Often Worth It)
Here’s the honest truth: yes, DIY can save money—but it often costs time, energy, and peace of mind. And when you’re in the final stretch of wedding planning, those things become priceless.
We always encourage our couples to ask themselves:
Is this project something I want to do, or something I feel like I should do?
Will this actually save me money when I factor in materials, tools, and time?
Would I be happier outsourcing this to a pro and freeing up my schedule?
At the end of the day, your time is valuable. Your energy is sacred. And your wedding should feel joyful—not like a never-ending to-do list.
The House of Luxe Takeaway
DIY décor can absolutely work—when it’s intentional, limited, and aligned with your skillset (and your sanity!). But don’t be afraid to delegate, outsource, or opt for convenience when it makes sense. Your wedding isn’t just about the details. It’s about the experience.
And we’re here to help make sure that experience is as seamless and beautiful as possible—glue guns optional. 😉
Want help deciding what to DIY and what to leave to the pros? Let’s chat—we’re here to make sure your day feels like you, without all the extra stress.
